we'll miss you vivi.

a couple of weeks ago j and i were picking ains up from daycare and were shocked to discover that she had nicknames for every one of her friends.  (if you know j at all, then you'll detect the sarcasm a mile away).  after hearing her say goodbye to jakey, nicko, and johnny she turned and called to vivi.  i looked at j and asked  'did you sneak her off to the hamptons while i was at work this week, or did she graduate from barnard and no one told me?'  j didnt bat an eyelash before responding 'what did you expect? she's an entitled white kid from the suburbs!'  :) we all laughed hysterically and kept making jokes all the way home.


 she'll always be vivi now.  and we miss her every day.

thank you for the thoughts/prayers/support that got us through this last week and help us through the ones to come.